USAF Maj. Curtis “Dan” Miller – Forever Love Sue

Susan Miller, wife of Maj. Curtis "Dan" Miller
His wife said, “My husband was a hero. He always served people. I am so terribly proud of him … he gave his last measure for our country.”
Over the years, family members received piecemeal information. They heard reports that the Air Force had picked up emergency beacons coming from the crash site, a tip that did not pan out. In 1983, the Air Force gave Susan Miller a wedding ring found at the site, with the inscription, “Forever Love Sue.”
According to a Houston Chronicle story, the 14K gold band was in perfect condition, giving family members hope that Miller was able to flee the burning wreckage.
Miller, who grew up in Palacios, Texas, met Susan, then 19, in college and the two married shortly after in 1966, she said in an interview. In 1969, she gave birth to their daughter Christy. In 1971, Miller deployed to Thailand to serve with the 16th Special Operations Squadron.
On March 29, 1972, 14 men were aboard an AC-130A Spectre gunship that took off from Ubon Royal Thai Air Force Base, Thailand, on an armed reconnaissance mission over southern Laos. The aircraft was struck by an enemy surface-to-air missile and crashed. Search and rescue efforts were stopped after a few days due to heavy enemy activity in the area.
In 1986, joint U.S.- Lao People’s Democratic Republic teams, lead by the Joint POW/MIA Accounting Command (JPAC), surveyed and excavated the crash site in Savannakhet Province, Laos. The team recovered human remains and other evidence including two identification tags, life support items and aircraft wreckage. From 1986 to 1988, the remains were identified as those of nine men from this crew.
Between 2005 and 2006, joint teams resurveyed the crash site and excavated it twice. The teams found more human remains, personal effects and crew-related equipment. As a result, JPAC identified the other crewmen using forensic identification tools, circumstantial evidence, mitochondrial DNA and dental comparisons.
A few years later, the military sent his wife, Susan Miller his medical tags, which had been discovered during an excavation in the mid-1980s.
Finally, last year, the government told her that it had discovered additional remains at the crash site in 2005 and ’06 and began notifying families as it identified them through DNA analysis. All 14 of the men, the government says, have been identified.
“With news trickling in over the years, you think you’ve got a good hold of it and you’re in control,” she said. “But then something happens, and the emotions just come flooding. It’s like he went down yesterday and I just got the news.”
She arrived in Dallas Ft. Worth airport from Hawaii as she escorted her husband’s remains back to Texas. They were warmly greeted and escorted by the North Texas PGR from the airport to a funeral home in Ft. Worth.
Miller, like the stories about her husband, has contradictions.
She teaches history to middle school students and has faith and trust in her government. Yet she will also tell you “I’m not naive” and doesn’t believe that the government has always shot straight with her.
She has never bought the story that Maj. Miller died in the crash.
How or when he died, she doesn’t know. She figures she never will. But she is certain he is gone and, rationally, has known that for many years.
“I know he would have tried to get home to me and his little girl,” she said. “I also know I tried everything in my power to find out what happened to him.”
But what goes on in the head doesn’t always communicate with the heart. So over the years she dated some even got a proposal or two. But her heart always told her that she was still married, for better or for worse.
“I couldn’t declare him dead,” she said. “That had to come from our government.”
On the 38th anniversary of his plane crash, Maj. Miller was taken to his final committal at DFW National Cemetery and rendered full military honors by State Rep. Lois Kolkhorst, USAF Honor Guard and Arm Forces Color Guard.
Special Thank You:
Family of Maj. Curtis “Dan” Miller
Texas State Representative – Lois Kolkhorst
16th Special Operations Wing – Honor Detail
7th Bomb Wing – Honor Guard
North Texas PGR
Texas Liberty Bell
DFW National Cemetery
Video Description:
Music
Performed by the,
Amazing Grace – USAF String Orchestra
Taps, The Air Force Song – USAF Brass Band
Forever Love – Reba McEntire
Video Production
USFallen.org Video Presentation
Jerry Castillo – Producer

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Commander Duckworth
April 1st, 2010 at 8:08 AM
2Jerry-you did another great job!!!
Thanks for what you do and and for a number one website.
Commander (Sir Duck) Duckworth
Commander
American Legion Post 218
Iraq & Afghanistan Veteran
Bob Gilllihan
April 1st, 2010 at 10:26 AM
3Well done Jerry, well done.
United States Air Force 1958-1966
N. TX Patriot Guard
Dan Dimascio
April 7th, 2010 at 2:10 PM
4We are a group of volunteers and starting a new initiative in a community. Your blog provided us valuable information to work on.You have done a marvellous job!
David McNabb
April 7th, 2010 at 10:44 PM
538 years is a very long time for a woman to wait for her man to come home and I do respect her for that…very much. I am the father of SSG Shawn H McNabb and this brave man is buried very near my son. I keep flags on my sons grave and others. Sue I want you to know when you find the flag and its marked with McNabb “NSDQ(Night Stalkers Dont Quit)” That I leave this with honor towards your beloved husband. Respectfully, David McNabb
John Dybala
September 25th, 2011 at 12:36 PM
6Many of you are undoubtedly familiar with the bracelets that they had in the 70s with the names of POWs on them. My mother had one with the Major’s name on it. Today it occurred to me to search his name online and I ended up here.
To Mrs. Miller, and Major Miller’s family and friends: know that he is remembered by people who never met him … even by people not even born when he died … but his name and his sacrifice will be remembered always. Every opportunity I’ve had to visit the Wall (either the actual one or the Traveling Wall) I have made sure to seek out his name, and I make this commitment to you that I will continue to do so.
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